I’ve noticed I sleep best when sharing a bed with someone, but dating hasn’t been going well, and it doesn’t look like that will change soon. Are there specific pillows or other items that can mimic the presence of another person in bed in a comforting, non-creepy way?
You might consider trying a weighted blanket or a body pillow.
Nico said:
You might consider trying a weighted blanket or a body pillow.
Weighted blankets really do work wonders.
Nico said:
You might consider trying a weighted blanket or a body pillow.
A body pillow has been a game changer for me. Getting one with a soft, fluffy pillowcase might add to the comfort.
Nico said:
You might consider trying a weighted blanket or a body pillow.
Consider trying a character-themed body pillow.
Adding extra pillows can help, and it’s nice knowing that you won’t be woken up unexpectedly.
Try using two pillows: one for your head and another placed longways next to you to hug. A large stuffed animal could also provide comfort, especially if it has long arms you can wrap around yourself.
Look into getting a body or maternity pillow. They are great for feeling more secure and comforted while sleeping.
Brooke said:
Look into getting a body or maternity pillow. They are great for feeling more secure and comforted while sleeping.
I can attest to the comfort of a U-shaped pillow, especially after a breakup. It really helped me sleep better.
Brooke said:
Look into getting a body or maternity pillow. They are great for feeling more secure and comforted while sleeping.
I loved mine so much that my boyfriend ended up taking it!
Some find comfort in unconventional solutions like a blow-up doll.
After my breakup, I started using my main blanket to hold and a thinner one to cover myself. It’s a good temporary solution.
I got a body pillow from Ikea that has been excellent.
Have you considered getting a dog? They’re wonderful companions and can help fill the space.
Keir said:
Have you considered getting a dog? They’re wonderful companions and can help fill the space.
A puppy can be trained to sleep in your bed, providing companionship and a sense of security.
Arranging your pillows in a triangle shape around you might help. Big stuffed animals and a weighted blanket could also add comfort.
Large stuffed animals and perhaps a cat could offer some warmth and company.
Body or pregnancy pillows can mimic the feeling of someone next to you. Extra pillows can also simulate the presence of a person if arranged effectively.
If you’re considering a pet, a dog known for its cuddliness might be a good choice. Just ensure you have the capacity to provide proper care.
Consider a body pillow and perhaps a stuffed animal that simulates breathing for a more lifelike presence. A weighted blanket might also enhance your comfort.